James' mission is to bring dignity back to dating and relationships by reinstilling these values that are sorely lacking in modern times. It can be difficult for some people to express their emotions, fears and even inner-most desires, but having the right person in our lives often helps to open those doors. They tend to use emotional and physical distancing strategies to keep intimacy at bay. A good man is always trying to improve himself. If they don't, you'll be wondering all the time if they. Mosting is cowardly, he said. A good man will never be abusive. This person really made you feel like you had a rare connection in a sea of duds. When it comes to dating and relationships, I often find myself wondering how certain people end up with others. I cannot tell you how many conversations I have had with people who tell me that there is no affection in their relationship.